The key to engage a conversation with a girl you know/barely know/don't know is to be confident. But, skeRer, how am I suppose to be confident ? I've never been confident, and I honestly don't know what it's like to be confident.. ahem.. help ? Sure...

The first step would be to learn how to like yourself/accept yourself like you are. It's called self-esteem. If you don't like the way you look, are uncertain about the way you walk (I know, it sounds stupid), uncertain about your hair style.. you won't go anywhere. Now keep it mind that to like yourself, you don't need to look like a super model, nah.

Once you get this done, your self-confidence will get better and without even noticing it, you'll "improve" a lot in the weird world of "conversation". Girls like guys who are natural (i.e. not fake), who accept themselves how they are and don't care about what people think of them, who aren't scared to look ridiculous (doesn't mean you need to jump everywhere and hump every ass you see on the dancefloor), who have a good sense of humour, who are confident etc.

Now don't worry if you're not a guy who is familiar with all of the things I previously said, it's normal. Most of them will come with time and experience. Sometimes you'll get rejected, but you'll learn out of it. Just keep your head up and keep it real. Be yourself.

Typically you need to get rejected to gain more of that confidence. So, rejection can sometimes be good. Also, like people have said, try not to take rejection personally, she doesn't like you, don't take it to heart, move on and keep trying.

I need help with my jealous girlfriend. My girlfriend lives in the town next to mine and I see about 4 times a week. I have girls who I would consider best friends and I see them about every day. My girlfriend hates it that I talk to them, she gets so mad. What should I do? What can I say to her to help stop her from being jealous.

Look at it this way. At the end of the day, you're still hers. Even though you talk to those other girls, you are still with her, and she is still your GF, and you're still her BF. She should realize that, and try to get over it. Jealousy is a nasty thing, and when not dealt with, can turn into something terrible. Just talk to her, you know "Hey, I'm still yours. Don't worry about anything." People usually like reassurance.

Originally Posted by Socom

I need help with my jealous girlfriend. My girlfriend lives in the town next to mine and I see about 4 times a week. I have girls who I would consider best friends and I see them about every day. My girlfriend hates it that I talk to them, she gets so mad. What should I do? What can I say to her to help stop her from being jealous.

Make sure she understands that she is the one you want to be with. In my little experience with jealous girls, they were jealous because I wasn't giving her adequate attention, and care. Don't just tell her that, prove it.

Now I know they're girls who are just crazy jealous for no reason whatsoever. If she is one of them, then I have no idea how to deal with that lol.

Originally Posted by -Amato-

Make sure she understands that she is the one you want to be with. In my little experience with jealous girls, they were jealous because I wasn't giving her adequate attention, and care. Don't just tell her that, prove it.

Now I know they're girls who are just crazy jealous for no reason whatsoever. If she is one of them, then I have no idea how to deal with that lol.

That's when you usually have to end the relationship, lol.

Like my friend here said, I'd try to spend more time with her, call her more often, go to her house, go out with her more etc.

Originally Posted by xM1LkMaNx

That's when you usually have to end the relationship, lol.

Like my friend here said, I'd try to spend more time with her, call her more often, go to her house, go out with her more etc.

Thats what I wanted to say, but I didn't want to be offensive. Real talk though, if she is the crazy jealous type end it immediately.

Originally Posted by -Amato-

Thats what I wanted to say, but I didn't want to be offensive. Real talk though, if she is the crazy jealous type end it immediately.

Where do you live?

Some of my friends at work say that "Real Talk though."

Lol. But, yeah, end it if she is that crazy type.

Originally Posted by xM1LkMaNx

Where do you live?

Some of my friends at work say that "Real Talk though."

Lol. But, yeah, end it if she is that crazy type.

Virginia is for lovers.

I live in MI. That's crazy.