Originally Posted by skeRer

Usually when the girl or the guy cheats in a couple and when the other one find out, it's an automatic bye bye. But now you're telling us that both of you cheated on eachother's back ? Ugh.. I wouldn't trust her whatever she says, and if she is smart, she won't trust you on whatever you say about it. This just can't work between you too. Kinda hard to admit, but I wouldn't waste my time getting back with her.

Never get back with an ex. Too much problems.. One of my friend got stuck half a year with his ex after he broke up with her for the first time. 2 weeks later, then came back together, thinking everything would be cool, then a month later, they thought that they shouldn't get back together. They came back together. It lasts half a year. They broke up 4 times. Trust me, this guy is my best friend and all it does is hurt is heart even more. So no no, please.

ballinzman : i've always given people second chances, but if you really like this girl, you may end up getting hurt. she claims she was drunk... well, does she still drink? bc you can count on it to happen again if she does.

My advice to all of you: Never ever become best friends with a girl.

Originally Posted by hedfones

My advice to all of you: Never ever become best friends with a girl.

what's wrong with being best friends with a girl?

Update: She called me yesterday and I said you know what, let's just be friends, but now she's all mad and said never. I really don't care though, because she was a disaster with drinking problems.

Yay me!

yes, listen to hedfones, he speaks the truth

Originally Posted by BallinZmanDuke

Ok guys, so I cheated on my ex 8 times, with the same girl but she was willing to take me back, and now i feel bad, and she dumped me. Now, yesterday I found out SHE was cheating on ME at the befor the time I cheated on HER! with more than one guy!

Then, she said she cheated with girls too, over 1 times!!!

WTF!!!!

She wants me back, what do i do?! Like we went out for 3 years, before it started.

I don't know what to do. I know this sounds wierd, but HALP!

If she cheated once, what makes you think she won't do it again? I'd find someone else. Also, cheating is stupid. No offense, but if you like someone else, break the relationship off, it only hurts more when you're with them and you're cheating on them.

Cheating is so stupid, dont date a girl that cheats, your only setting yourself up to get hurt even more.

yea, cheating doesn't work at all, just stop and get out if someones cheating, cause its ridiculous

Well, what really gets to me, is the people that GO back to there love after they've gotten cheated on. Most likely, they're going to cheat again, they've done it once, and you came back, so what makes you think they won't do it again, thinking you'll be back once again. I just find cheating completely retarded, and there is no excuse for it.

Well, she accuses me of cheating. I just kinda hung out with this girl, and we didn't even do anything besides spoon, lol. I called it cheating because that's what she called it. The girl I "cheated" with is my best friend, and she has a bf too so I wasn't really doing anything wrong.