So I called my ex and she just said she wanted to talk about stuff but couldnt at the moment cause she was leaving to go get her license then might hang out with her new bf, so im debating on going to hang out with chelsea or not again today.

Originally Posted by SoA TrauMA

So I called my ex and she just said she wanted to talk about stuff but couldnt at the moment cause she was leaving to go get her license then might hang out with her new bf, so im debating on going to hang out with chelsea or not again today.

Well, if she wants to hang out with her new boyfriend, this should tell you that you should hang out with Chelsea. I haven't been in a situation like this before but I can tell you that you should hang out with Chelsea again. Just my thoughts is all. Hope everything turns out well.

EDIT: Sorry for jumping to conclusions so fast hah. So she still wants to talk to you about 'stuff' eh? I think Dela pretty much covered what I have to say about that.

Yeah she didnt hang out with him, so Im still gonna hang out with chelsea anyways

Originally Posted by SoA TrauMA

Yeah she didnt hang out with him, so Im still gonna hang out with chelsea anyways

So, you know where you two stand, relationship wise(you and ex) now? I ask only because your ex said she still wanted to talk to you about 'stuff.'

mmm I think right now we're going to be friends and ill probably rebuild it into a relationship if I want, if not we'll see how me and chelsea are after tonight.

Originally Posted by SoA TrauMA

mmm I think right now we're going to be friends and ill probably rebuild it into a relationship if I want, if not we'll see how me and chelsea are after tonight.

Alright, everything makes sense now. Have fun, dude. And updates too, if you want.

Yeah Ill definitely write a summary tonight if u had an AIM i'd send u the link lol

Originally Posted by SoA TrauMA

Yeah Ill definitely write a summary tonight if u had an AIM i'd send u the link lol

I do, it's:

I am Bizzad

my girlfriend of about 4 days is awesome and i like her a lot, but whenever i jokingly call her a b..ch or say something semi-mean to her on the phone, she will get all offended (or at least it seems like it) and start with her usual "i'm not talking to you, you're mean" sh.t or whatever... i don't know whether to believe if she's serious or not bc i'll tell her i was only joking and it takes forever to get her to start talking again.

i don't want to stop being playful (as far as teasing/name-calling goes) and i don't want to get on my knees and be a b..ch after i "offend" her, so wtf do i do?

First, you gotta understand that every girl is different. Maybe your ex didn't mind when you called her a b..ch or whatever, but it doesn't automatically means your new GF will be fine with it, got it ? To me, it seems like she's not used to be named like that. Simply tell her that it's the way you speak and that you don't necessarily mean what you're saying. That's normal.. just talk to her

(also keep in mind that your relationship is brand new, don't push it too much at first ya know?)