General advice: Never deal with an ex. Whether she left you or you left her, please, for the sake of your balls, do not go back. That's the only thing on this planet that pisses me off.
Don't let your current deal with her ex either. It's so easy for people to 'relapse' and get close to their ex again. It's your ex-comfort zone. Please, please, please don't go back...especially if you're under, say, 21 years old.

Originally Posted by .PinBall

Lets say im in downtown walkin around and i see a pretty sweet and hot girl, how can i get her attention??

Here's a little technique:
Walk up to her look happy and smiling and just be like "Excuse me *you smile, she should kinda smile back*...can I bother you for just a sec?"
She says, "uhhh...yeah?"
"I'm new to town and I know a few people here and there, but...I figure if I can meet one person a day for the next year, I'll have 365 acquaintances. Easy enough, eh? Today, I want to meet you. Hi, I'm .Pinball *reach out and shake her hand*"
~You either get a "heh. heh. I'm [Krystal]" here and a smile or a rejection~

Now you can ask her about basic stuff--school, work, interests, gym, sports, etc.
Two random people who seemingly have nothing in common, right? Wrong. She's an expert on something and you're trying to become an expert on the same thing -- HER.

Extra tips:
-Confidence: exude it. Don't be arrogant though.
-The intro is key. The rest is just normal conversation.
-Touch her elbow/forearm area! Guide her to a quieter area as you get deeper into a conversation. There's really no need to touch her body at all on your first meeting...unless you're ballin' and she's touchy-touchy...but there's no way for you to know this. Kinesthetic interactions are more affirmative than saying "yes, I agree."
-Don't shake her hand like you shake a man's hand. Shake it like a woman's hand. Instead of hands being left-right (like for a man-to-man), have 'em top-bottom (you on bottom. She controls the handshake)
-If you're successful and you get some digits, wait to call. A couple days, at least.
-If you're nearby an eatery, offer to eat lunch/get coffee (never been tested, only theorized).
-"Oh, Midas, women know it's all fake." True, they do know this. But they won't care; they'll love the whole bit. Later, during an intimate conversation she'll ask you how's your 365 acquaintance-attempt journey is going. You can say something like "meeting this one person *wink and look deeply into her eyes* is better than the other 364 combined *proceed to passionately make-out*"
-This is just a raw good way to meet women if you're not a big party-goer or bar/club patron.

Originally Posted by the midas touch

Later, during an intimate conversation she'll ask you how's your 365 acquaintance-attempt journey is going. You can say something like "meeting this one person *wink and look deeply into her eyes* is better than the other 364 combined *proceed to passionately make-out*"

whyyy, how clever of you lol

Originally Posted by the midas touch

tl;dr lol

You are mercury, player.

Originally Posted by iAMdela

I daresay.
I hope these novelty posts don't occur very often. They're the ones that ruin potential threads.

you sir, have no sense of humor whatsoever

Originally Posted by .AbscKo.

you sir, have no sense of humor whatsoever

When the sense of humor spams 3 pages, it doesn't work out for the life of the thread.

So, Last night I went and took all my sh.t back from my ex because she told me to call her at 8 so I did, then she says. Let me call u back. I'm talking to Justin. The kid from her work. So I flipped out went over there to get my stuff back. She comes out with the bag of it, looks like shes about to cry and seems mad. I asked her "So this is how u want to end 6 years of friendship and dating huh?" she goes "No, not at all..its not like that" and she said some like w/e and stuff like that. So then before I leave she goes "I'll call you later and we can talk...." when she hates to talk about the subject. I have no idea what is running through her mind. I mean we talked and stuff she said she still has feelings for me, she just wants "time" to think about everything and stuff. I have a date with her to this carnival this weekend. She's not considering it a date though. So anyone know what this woman is thinking? MsTK? skeRer? Milk? :P

We need more informationnnnsssss ! For how long have you guys been DATING (not friends, but boyfriend/girlfrien) ? Who broke up ? Why ? Since when ? And who's this "Justin" kid ?

ummm. Dated 1yr 2 months, for 2 weeks we've been broken up...umm just little issues like, I got mad over stuff sometimes and it all just accumulated over time and I didnt like her talking to other dudes and she broke up. Noob Answer skeRer...and do some work maybe instead of bein on h3f

welll, if you still like her, i guess wait a week, see hows shes doing, then see how things go from there

Trauma-
All I can say is don't overreact. I have witnessed so many people throw away so many relationships and consequentially ruin friendships because they overreacted. Try to salvage it, but be prepared for it to be un-salvagable. It happens. Just roll with it, dude, and don't say anything you don't mean, and try not to sound like a creeper, ya herd?