Originally Posted by E Nomini Patri

Quit stroking me STL. Then again, maybe it is just the bad taste I get seeing guys who don't get it giving DATING advice to other guys who don't get it. My apologies that I am not afraid to project my reality on others because I'm not self-conscious enough to care if I look "cocky" or "egotistical." You could say I am possesed by Satan when it comes to not caring about what other people think about me. 20% of the males on this planet have sex with 80% of the females. My bad for being skeptical about advice for guys with girl problems that I can recognize as coming from the 80%-male bracket.

Where's the logic STL?

Men are naturally polygamous so I don't see how calling me a PUA is in any way an insult. My dominant genes will be passed on, am I somehow less of a person in your eyes because I follow what my evolutionary instincts compel me to do (value reproduction)? To construct a valid insult, make sure next time that the insult isn't a level of success sought after by near 80% of the males on this planet.

Can you tell me how the advice that I have given these kids has been bad? I am willing to bet (Aside from Marked Achilles) that out of all of the members that post on this site and are involved in this community, I have more experience with women than anyone. I have been through alot of women and relationships. I know what has failed (Which I have learned from) and I know what has been a success in my relationships. I am merely trying to guide these kids. I am explaining them the realism of what can happen, along with some things that they need to hear.

You may not have been singling me out in this thread, but there are exceptions to everything like you have said.

And im sorry if I am trying to steer these kids away from that 'animal instinct' of wanting to reproduce. Maybe they need to feel love and pure emotion. Maybe im trying to save them from instead of trying to f..k every woman they meet and possibly contracting a STI but to devolpe a relationship build on pure connection on more levels than just a phsyical one. And hopefully building to love. I am one person who believes in love in many different ways. But hey, I am only one person.

Originally Posted by E Nomini Patri

The HOTTEST GIRLS tend to end up with boyfriends who treat them like sh.t. There is a difference between a nice guy (kiss ass), jerk (playful, makes fun of her, extremely competent, not afraid what people think), and an a.shole (actively pursues making people feel bad).

Once again that statement isn't filled fully with truth.

I treat my girl in a very sweet way. I am extremely kind to her and like I have stated before. I treat her like she should be treated. Do I kiss her ass? No. But I am a nice guy. I am a guy who truely cares about his girlfriend and would take a bullet for her. I am also playful with her, tease her (In a good way), and I don't give a flying sh.t what people think of me. Does that make me a jerk? Nope. But you did get the asshole part right.

Nomini, you should use a different word than 'jerk'. It all boils down to one thing anyway - confidence. The 'jerk' image you're trying to describe doesn't necessarily have to be called a 'jerk'.

Originally Posted by KeRiZmA™

Nomini, you should use a different word than 'jerk'. It all boils down to one thing anyway - confidence. The 'jerk' image you're trying to describe doesn't necessarily have to be called a 'jerk'.

There is a very fine line between confidence and egotistical. I have stated in this thread when giving someone advice to have confidence in themselves, but not to come off with a big ego.

+ 1 for me once again.

Now that he is out of this thread, please resume regularly scheduled program.

As I've been saying, use your common sense. Be critical of anything anyone tells you. STL you are my homie. M'Kay?

I say jerk cause when I do what is in parenthases, I get called it playfully. Maybe thats where the misunderstanding is. My bad, I will own up when I f..k up.

Originally Posted by STL

There is a very fine line between confidence and egotistical. I have stated in this thread when giving someone advice to have confidence in themselves, but not to come off with a big ego.

Agreed .

Originally Posted by E Nomini Patri

The HOTTEST GIRLS tend to end up with boyfriends who treat them like sh.t.

I pretty much agreed with most of what you said except for this. I highly disagree with that statement.

You must sh.t on the very few clubs we have in Washington here.

Originally Posted by STL

So you are telling me that majority of girls would rather be treated like sh.t than have a TRUE guy, who cares about her and wants to do great things for her and cares about things she is interested in just because she is into them?

Something tells me that 9 out of 10 women would prefer the romantic, sweet guy over the jerk.

I'm with STL on this one. Jerks don't last long in a serious relationship. Not saying it can't be done, but it's rare. Girls like guys that treat them respect etc etc, you've heard it before.

Also, Patri, you have your advice, I have mine. Yours "may" work for you, and mine works for me. Doesn't necessarily mean mines wrong and yours is right. I've given advice on a lot of things to my friends, in which it worked out great. Your advice may help people, but I don't agree with it.

Kritic babe, your sig is messed up.

Originally Posted by E Nomini Patri

I didn't troll anything wtf are you on about. What is wrong with PUA advice? You do realize it's about giving men choice in their life that has been absent for so long regarding their love life. I made a claim that this thread had bad advice in it, I backed up that claim, and I provided better advice. That was all in one post. You just got offended because I posted a PUA website link. OMG dude. REAL FIELD TESTED ADVICE geared at getting guys off their asses and out meeting girls so they can stop being keyboard jockeys. I am such an a.shole for linking everyone here to solid advice that you can't find in this damn thread that's supposed to be about helping guys with girl problems. GG dawggg.

My God, I said you acted like a pompous asshole. But, reading a little deeper into this thread, I see that you admit to being an asshole, so, my assumption was right. GG dawggg.